Exactly Where is the Peep Hole?

So, as if I need more introspection? On our usual travels home, Mr. High Hat and I talk about the funny things that make up our day, maybe a little about life, maybe a little about, current events. Today however, he seemed intent on peeling the skin off me and stepping inside of me to make me the most uncomfortable I have ever been around a man. If I could have jumped out of the window or cussed or punched him I would have. I was in a place that probably had to be or HAS to be exposed and I guess dealt with. Its not something I don't know. Its just that I was hoping to deal with it on my own before he found out about it and sort of surprise everyone with the new and improved Me. Not that I'm not darn near close to perfection ;). But I guess everyone could use some improvement!! I'm finding out that either he has always known certain things about me or is very discerning. Either way, its scary. I thought I wore the mask, but I guess its not very good. So, from here, I do what? Continue to let iron sharpen iron or fight back like I really want to? I'm voting for fighting back, I mean it says iron sharpen iron, not iron sharpen cotton!